How to avoid being in a fight:

Question

If someone is being mean, try not to be in a fight!

Here is some advice:

1: Don't argue back. If you do, they'll just keep being mean.

2: Don't gossip about the other person. It will just make the argument bigger.

3. Tell an adult if they say something insulting. Your parents, or a school counseler is perfect for this.

4: Ignore the other person. Why are you friends with them in the first place?

5: Ask yourself who,what,when,why, and how. Who are you arguing with? What are you arguing about? When did this arguing start? Why are you arguing? And, how did this happen?

Your's truly,

 

~JewelSun~

Answer 1

Kill them with kindness

Answer 2

* Hold up your hands with your palms facing the person & say "How, woah. Can we just work this out?"

If I was to get into a fight, at least I'd have my Krav Maga (close combat fighting) at my fingertips. Here are some defensive moves:

   .Choke Hold. If someone has both hands enclosing your neck, quickly bring your hands up in a C shape and pull down on their thumb, which is the weakest point.

   .Front Bear Hug. If someone is holding you under the arms, drop your weight and do football hands (hands together like you're gonna catch a football, FYI). Then cup their nose or chin (NEVER MOUTH!) and push them backward. For over the arms, do strikes to the groin and push them off you.

    .Wrist Grab. Twist your hand so that your hand's side is level with your attacker's thumb and pull out of the grab. When two hand, make a fist and grab your fist with your free hand.  Yank your hand out of the hold.

:)

    

Answer 3

I agree 100%. Though if the person gets physical, i would fight back in defense

Comments

i recommend aikido. that's a martial arts based self-defense system where you basically just turn all of their attacks back on them, without really having to fight @ all.

Answer 4

Good tips! I especially like #4. ;)