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I promised to tell you guys a secret today, and the big secret is...

I'm Lesbian.

I'm guessing some of you might've guessed, but I have never left anything confirming before. I haven't told anyone this at all except you guys now, I didn't plan on telling you guys for awhile until I found out this is probably tht last day I'll be on here. My parents don't know, I'm pretty sure they don't approve of it, my grandma definatly doesn't support it, I don't think anyone in my family does. I know some of you don't either, but you guys are also my friends, everyone here. This is why I had asked if you guys personally supported gay/lesbian or if you were against it, so I would know in advance, and I was a little curious. But yeah, that's my big secret. Respond to it how you will.

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I support %100! Also I came from my nonbinary post since you said you posted this.
by (165k points)
Heh, thanks
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Wow, I just noticed that you had posted this on my birthday.



14 Answers

+5 votes
by (75.6k points)
Hey that's cooL! Anyway, i support ya!
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Thanks,
by (75.6k points)
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Np,
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by (350k points)
Well, like I said before. I do NOT support it but it does not MEAN I DON'T ACCEPIT YOU as a person. It is your choice, I can't change you. Personally it changes my view of you a little, but as long as you're not attracted to me I'm personally okay with it (that's how I feel towards it). I still show you God's love and accept you even if I don't support it. I had guessed but it came as a bit of surprise to know I'm right.

Personally I believe that men and women were made for each other, otherwise we would all be women or all men. Anyway, thanks for sharing. You're still my friend, so don't let that cloud your vision of me.
by (82.3k points)
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Same
+5 votes
by (61.9k points)
Huh? Well... what? I’m really confused. Lesbian? What? M-maybe you should tell your parents... they can help you. You are atheist, right? What if that girl doesn’t like you back? If you know she does, then what would you do if they find out? Will you switch back to being straight if they do? How will you become straight again? What will the girl’s reaction be? This is a big thing...
by (165k points)
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As for my parents finding out, it's unlikely, not quite impossible but unlikely. And as for swiching to straight, I'm not doing that, it's not really something I can just do. I plan on telling my parents eventually, but not now. I've researched stuff like "Should I tell my parents I'm lesbian" (I deleted the research off my search history afterwards) and what i've taken from it is that I should tell them when I'm not physically and finacially dependant on them, like when I'm older and have my own house and job, because a lot of parents will kick their kids out of their house after finding out they're gay/lesbian. So I'd rather not tell them quite yet and I keep them from finding out. And yeah, this is a big thing, but I wanted everyone here to know because y'all are my friends. And the reason I'm pretty sure my parents don't support it is because they talk about LGBTQ every once in awhile and don't seem real fond it. But'm not changing, this is me.
by (61.9k points)
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Thanks for your answer. I’m glad you agree how serious this, because it is something to talk about. Luna, I hope you don’t think I am homophobic, because I believe that people can make their own life decisions. Who am I to tell people what to do and what not to do? And if you believe that your lesbian life is who you are, then… do what you think is right. You have to decide the right time to tell them, which I see you have, maybe at age 16 or 17. Hiding something that is important (that might change your life) for about 5 or 6 years from your own parents is sort of weird, and you might feel that way. Don’t worry about it, we got your back. And do you actually think your mom/dad will get rid of you? Parents love their children a lot. If you feel that your parents aren’t the type that will keep you, that’s fine. If anyone hates you because you are lesbian, ignore them. They aren’t worth your tears. We will always help you no matter what. And when times are tough, remember this: Why fit in when you were born to stand out? Thank you,

 

RavenQueen


 

by (165k points)
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Wow, thank you, a lot Raven, that really means a lot. And as for if my parents would really kick me out, it's a 50/50 possibilty, I don't want to risk it.
by (75.6k points)
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you can't just switch your sexuality...
by (165k points)
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I agree. You can discover your sexuality, figure out what you are interested in, but you can't just change your sexuality like it is your favorite color. This is why I hate the existence of  conversion therapy. I am lesbian, I am not going to change that, nor wake up one day and decide to be straight, it doesn't work that way.
by (61.9k points)
I agree with both of you guys. At the time though, I did not know this. You CAN, but it requires very expensive medical shots that make you dizzy and sick. But yes, you cannot change your sexuality.
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by (82.3k points)
For the people who think I don't care there wrong!

Luna I don't support it but I do care it's fine if your different from other people
by (82.3k points)
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I do care
by (165k points)
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Raven, though I appricaite your concern, Nathan wasn't trying to be rude or sound like he didn't care. Also you never confirmed your name the second time even though it says " RavenQueen will confirm This later".




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