Should I come out? Am I too young?

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Hi, I'm Claire. I'm 12 years old and I'm Bi. I don't know if I should come out. I am worried that I am too young and people will think its just a phase. Also, my father Is homophobic! I need advice.

EDIT: BTW do not send hate to anyone because of their sexuality!
asked Jun 2 in TeenTalk by Buiscut
edited Jun 2


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Like I told Luna, It will take courage to come out of the closet like that, and even if I do not support it, you can be what you want to be. Don't be afraid to share yourself with the world.
answered Jun 2 by Kitten (187,110 points)
I can't choose this. It's not a lifestyle, it's how god made me. You don't have to be 100% supportive, but I want people to know it is not a choice, I hope you understand.
God made you to love a different gender than you, In my opinion
EXCUSE ME? DO YOU THINK PEOPLE CHOSE TO BE BISEXUAL? IF IT WAS A CHOICE I WOULD BE STRAIGHT SO I WON"T BE BULLIED! I AM RELIGIOUS AND LOVE GOD! HE MADE ME LIKE BOYS AND GIRLS!

I am supporting you Buiscut! im bisexual too and in the closet. dont let the haters get you
+1 vote

At 12 years of age you are simply too young to be dating, or in any relationships. Wait until you are at least in high school before making such a life changing decision. 

Honestly, you may change when you are older, and if you don't that is fine too.  Trust me, you just don't know (even if you feel 100% sure now) and will be a very different person in a few years. If you don't plan on being in a relationship, which you should not be, there is no point in doing anything at this point. Just be a kid and enjoy your life. Focus on school and what you want to do with your life. You don't need the extra stress and it does not matter if you are not in a relationship.

 

answered Jun 2 by my 2 cents worth of advice
I agree!
I dont want to be in a relationship, I just want to know if I can tell my parents
+1 vote
I am 12 and im lesbian, I can honestly relate. I have come out to my friend's here on kidzsearch, other than that, I haven't told anyone. I have done a lot of research on when i should come out to my parents, I have decided myself to come out when i am older with a job and my own place to live, that way I don't rely on my parents in case they react badly and kick me out or anything like that. And as for just a phase, I know it isn't, I don't get why people think it is. And I also agree with your comment about this not being a lifestyle, I don't think anyone would simply choose to have such pressure of coming out and worries, doesnt make sense huh?
answered Jun 3 by LunaLight (57,510 points)
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Hmm... I think you're too young to participate in any type of relationship, not mental and not physical either.

Stay away from these things until you become older, maybe 16, 17 or 18, it depends.

I don't know much about bisexuality, but definitely, I do NOT hate people just because of their sexaulity. What can you do with that, after all? I believe it's made by the hands of the God. What can human beings do with their sexuality? What will you be, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, heterosexual... It's decided by the God, himself. There's nothing to do with it at all!

Be what you are. Hope my advice helps you! teeth_smile

answered Jun 5 by JD2005
i totally agree that god made people gay or trans

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