GIRLS ONLY (seriously, boys, you DON’T want to know. We’ll be talking about breasts.)

Question

Hey!! Had a few questions for ya...

Boys, don’t read any further. It’s gonna be graphic. Yeah, it’s about the b-word. Boobs. So, stop now and thank me later.

K. So now that we got rid of the creeps, my 4 questions:

1) I have budding breasts. I am 10 y.o. You know, that uncomfortable stage right after flatness where they jiggle and hurt at every little thing. You aren’t there yet? Oh, it’s fun. *sarcasm alert*

2) So many of my friends already got their period and I WANT TO HAVE IT SOON. And no, don’t answer this with a “oh, you don’t want it.” Or, “everyone grows at their own pace.” I just feel kinda left out and I REALLY want to grow.

3) I’m sorta getting curious bout babies...

4) Uh... boys. Like I mentioned before, I’m TEN. Yet I have so many crushes! Is it normal?? My mom started getting her first crushes at like 15, and my dad, well, I don’t really know about him. My mom also told me that I shouldn’t start dating and liking boys until I’m about 12/13 (she was apparently a late bloomer) but I think that I just have those fun, raging hormones that make you have those absolutely great (sarcasm, remember?) mood swings and huge crushes.

Thanks, girls! Boys, I’m disappointed in you guys. I told you not to read this. That might have just changed my mind in y’all. See ya.

Nora

Comments

Are your talking to me??

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does that mean i am rare?  i have it and i am 9

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Maybe? You can get it between ages 9-15, but it is a little rare to get it at 9.

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girl i feel u. I'm ten 2 and I just got breast buds 2. I only have one crush though. And also, I only had one period and its rly not that bad. But theres LOTS of blood. B rdy.

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U don’t wanna grow, trust me

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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH THE OWNER OF A BABY?!?!?!

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When do girls start getting a bigger chest? Is it a pain? And what's discharge? (

I'm Just a girl that stresses about this stuff)

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WHAT!?!?!?

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Same, girl

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Discharge is white stuff that dries yellow in your pants. You get it a few years or so before u get ur period.

Answer 1

I guess I don't know what to say I'm only 8 so up to 6 more years until my period 

I said UP TO 6 more years

Answer 2

I feel ya. Being a girl sucks. But it has its benefits.

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Totes

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Same

Answer 3

4 the b-word problem, start wearing a sports bra, it stops um from moving around too much

Answer 4

Hey Girl! I don't know if this helps, but I am 13 and STILL haven't gotten my period yet. All of my friends are like

"Trust me, you don't want it"

or

"Its terrible! You're so lucky"

And that just makes me flat out scared. I really want it, just so I can fit in, or when all the other girls complain about it, I can say "Oh that's the WORST!" at least!

So yes, its totally normal to feel that way

 

about the breast bud thing...

ITS TERRIBLE! I've been there, hang on! You'll get outta this soon!

 

CRUSHES!

Hear me when I say this..

IT IS SUPER NORMAL TO HAVE CRUSHES!

Don't try to stop the feeling, it is so normal!

One of my BFFs had her first crush at 3!

HOWEVER

I will say that having a "boyfriend" at 10 is wayyyyyyy too soon. I personally would wait until 15--16 ish, when he could drive me to a date, cause your parents driving you is a little weird.

 

So ya!

 

I feel you.

 

hope this helped!

 

-Panda

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trust me, girl. u dont want it. honest.

Answer 5

Alright! First of all, I TOTALLY get where you're coming from with the periods. I haven't gotten mine yet, so I feel you. Periods are pretty complicated. Everyone DOES grow at their own pace, so if your friends are pressuring you about it, or making fun of you, just tell them you don't care, then maybe hang out with someone else. GHope this helps! <3

Answer 6

DOnt feel scared or anything. Breasts r normal and natural. About the babies thing, I wouldn’t consider having any. If you have questions about “making” them, ask your parents and they will decide if they should say. Anyway! Answers to your questions,

1. IDK what stage I’m in, I’m 16 and still look 12. I think I’m in stage 3/4 IDK. And YEA I remember that pain. Still gets that way in the week before your period too, so watch out for that.

2. Don’t worry. Once you get it you’ll be like, “oh well”. I understand your view tho lol

3. Ask ur parents o.o

4. Girl.... I had my first crush in kindergarten... mood swings r normal lol.

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ive never had a crush, dont wanna get married anyway

Answer 7

I am 10 too and I haven't got my period l literally no one has started

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me too i realy want my perieod is that normal ??    i will be realy exited  is that normal ?

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Don't worry about it! Don't compare yourself to others. Your not them. I did that for a long time and it makes you feel bad about yourself. Just trust the process. If your breasts are only budding then you have at least a year and a half till your period comes. You don't want your period it changes your life and cause you so much more stress and worries. I just got mine and I'm thirteen and breasts started budding at 10. Their are so many different signs to tell you around the time your period will come. Look that and take some quizzes about when your first period. Just don't worry and don't get in your head that you really want your period just don't think about. If it will help you then you can make a period kit with wipes, hand sanitizer, lotion, pads or tampons, and mint, gum etc. It is very normal to have crushes at your age that is just your hormones acting up since your starting puberty.

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It is very normal to want it but just enjoy not having it. Your period cause more stress.

Answer 8

I’m a few years older than you so I understand.

1. Oh, that is super annoying!
2. Don’t worry too much.
3. Idk what to say
4. I’ve never had a crush before, but it’s okay to have a crush at the age of ten.

Answer 9

its okay to feel like that im 13 and about to be 14 ive been through all that i got my period when i was 9 and a half it was way harder for me. so dont sweat it litterly.wear deoderant .my name is leslie  so byye have FUN!jkjkjk