Omg omg omg

Question

I'm on the bathroom floor writing this my whole bodies shaking and play there's a lot to cover... Yes I'm that questioning enby person who's been desperate on kids talk recently. So I kinda just came out to my parents. I'm going to fully explain so warning will be kinda long: So my dad was talking about feeling a little bad for this enby person at his work and stuttering/hesitating when they used their pronouns and he was confused. My mom then said they should expect it if they want to be a weirdo like that,  used he/him pronouns for them,  said that they need to choose one and that it seemed like a mental disorder.. I was shaking and trying to hold back my tears and tried to walk away casually. My Mom asked what was wrong and I said nothing and she asked kinda sarcastically if I wanted to be called they/them and I said yes. She asked if I was serious I said yes. She immediately was sympathetic to me but I needed to be alone so now I'm here. now they know ig... It doesn't feel real it feels like one of my dreams/daydreams about it happening and idk what to do

Comments

Correction tho to that replace sarcastically with jokingly

Answer 1

That was brave to answer. I know it's not the best story, but your dad seemed to be somewhat supportive by using different pronouns, and at least your mom seemed sympathetic. Personally, I have a friend who I met last year as a girl and he is now a guy. I still stutter sometimes because I'm used to them as a girl, but I still try and y'all know I'm supportive. Keep me updated. I want to know if y'all discuss that again, mk?

Comments

After I went out we did talk about it. My mom was nice about it but still seems to think I'm going to choose one or the other eventually. It was a goal to come out before Christmas so I'm happy I completed that though part of me is embarrassed about it. My mom just seemed to think it was the same as being a tomboy but with a label so I tried to explain dysphoria and stuff. Apparently my mom likes girls too? Theres not anything else really significantly remarkable I don't think. But let me know if you have any questions about the situation

---

That's still great she's accepting. Happy for ya.

Answer 2

Really!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Comments

Yes really! why would I make that up? this accounts not even registered so I would absolutely nothing to benefit from lying.