Sexuality, Gender, etc. Update

Question

Hope you're all doing well! <3

I wanted to update you on my gender identity since I haven't in a while. In the last post I made about this, I thought I was a female lesbian. Now, I feel that I am a genderfluid pansexual. No, I'm not attracted to pans. I just like all genders. EVERYONE IS HOT WHY

Anyway, that's all. My mom thinks pronouns are a bit overdramatic (my pronouns are they/them). That kind of hurts, but whatever.

You all are valid and loved! See you later!

Comments

Good to know! My pronouns are she/they.

Answer 1

Sup. Personally, I'm homodemisexual and cis, so can't relate to a bit of that. As for pronouns, it can be hard for some people to adjust to them. One of my friends is trans and I still struggle with using male pronouns sometimes. It's not on purpose, I've just used female ones for so long I just have to adjust a bit. as for the pansexual thing, heh, sounds like a you problem lol. Again, homodemisexual, in other words, girls I have a strong emotional connection to.

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can you tell me the difference between lesbian and homodemisexual?

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Well, aside from lesbian being girl x girl and homo being gender x same gender, it's basically just demisexual and lesbian mixed so I don't really feel a romantic attraction until I know the person really well, and prefer girls. Don't ask how I know this despite never having had a crush, it's hard to explain.

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Because of your imagination, right? You imagine being with a girl and you like it... but not with boys.

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Basically, yes.

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But anyone can imagine anything- like I’ve heard stories where someone could imagine being with a guy but actually doesn’t want to.

I’m not saying you need experience (that would be very hypocritical). But I’m curious how you know without experience, as sometimes I wonder if I really need the experience.