May Allah bless you too! Ameen.
Yes you're right, we should be fearing Allah instead. Allah says, "And whoever is in awe of standing before their Lord will have two Gardens. Then which of your Lord’s favours will you both deny?" [55:46-47]
And I found a hadith of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), he said about this ayah: "There are two Gardens made of gold for believers who are granted special nearness to Allah; and there are two Gardens made of silver for the People of the Right [ that is, for general body of righteous believers ]."
If we feel fear for standing in front of Him and mind our actions, This genuine fear actually qualifies us for jannah; this fear is a blessing in disguise!
SubhanAllah!