Finding a new name is hard

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 20:19:52 +0000

ive been searching for a new name for myself for years… and it’s so hard. Uhh when I made that post about what gender you think the name blakely is for I had run into that name on a baby name website and it said it was a girl name but it didn’t sound like a girl name to me and I was like what the

Anyways a good tip for testing out a name is going to a coffee shop alone and say your name is whatever you are thinking about changing your name to. I’m going to go get a chai and do this in a minute so that’s why I’m posting this

I think it’ll be easier to leave my dad’s house than it was to leave my mom’s house because I don’t like it as much as at my mom’s so I’ll want to leave more. My dad has a giant couch so I sit out in the living room instead of laying in bed all day. And my dad doesn’t really talk to me much so I don’t need to go to my room to avoid human interaction.

Anyways since my dad isn’t going to be home all day I can do whatever I want

unfortunately I don’t think there’s going to be anything to eat for lunch and dinner because he didn’t prepare anything and I can’t cook very well

actually I could just eat some canned soup or something but I don’t want to because that’s what I eat for school when i’m at my dad’s and I don’t want to get tired of it

I could go out to eat

I think I have enough money at my dad’s house for that

but the majority of my money I left at my mom’s house for some reason

and I could wait for my dad to get home to make dinner

but that could be insanely late at night (or even tomorrow? i doubt it though.) and I don’t think he’d want to cook so I better make microwaved mac and cheese or normal mac and cheese if there isn’t any microwave mac and cheese left.

Anyways, sorry for the tangent.

Until dusk,

~ Umber <they/them>

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Finding a new name is hard