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I need help on something (Self esteem)

Sat, 17 Feb 2024 18:43:02 +0000

I am signed off cuz Im gonna start venting signed off

So there is this girl at my school, let's name her I.

I is really amazing. She is beautiful, she's in National Junior Honor Society, She is a Straight-A student, She dosen't have Autisim and she has friends and knows how to communicate.

Looking at her, I wish I was like her. I don't feel like I do great things compared to her. I don't do anything great that is a contribution to society or my school.

Dont say "But you are a good artist" nobody at school except the teachers like my art. Plus it dosent have any artistic or educational value

I make The Emigrants By Vilhelm Moberg Fanart

Litearly, I wish I was like I. I wish had a purpose.

Plus, there aren't any relatable role models for me. I look up to Kristina from The Emigrants but we have 0 things in common

My self esteem is gone

Thu, 22 Dec 2022 00:44:32 +0000

So, on the first day of school, I met someone who's top ten MC PvP. He said it took seven years to make it. He also said I have potential of making it. But, tonight dad had the ( sarcastically says) brilliant idea ) sarcasm stops) of saying I'll never make it. I insisted I'll try for 20 years if that's how long it takes. Dad said then you'll be homeless. But after dinner my self esteem burnt up like a zombie in sunlight. My self esteem is almost all back now but can you help me so if this happens again my self esteem won't go away?

Low self esteem issues :(

Fri, 09 Dec 2022 23:03:35 +0000

**WARNING: INCREDIBLY PERSONAL AND MEANT FOR GIRLS. BOYS, I AM NOT EXCLUDING YOU, BUT THIS MAY MAKE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE AND I APOLOGIZE**

alright now that that's out of the way...

So I have low self esteem issues. I do not go to therapy or anything like that, not that anything can ever make me feel better about my body.

So I will say it plainly: I don't like the way I look. My girlfriend sometimes jokes around about how my...watermelons...are too small. And they are. All the girls at school have the nicest bodies. They all are literally gorgeous. I have never, not once, had someone crush on me besides my girlfriend.

Everyone makes fun of my big nose aswell. I am over 50% german, and my nose is quite large, ngl...

i also have the most boring clothes ever. I never wear anything interesting aside from sweatpants in shades of black or gray or my black hoodie.

I really hate my personality as well. I always feel like people only talk to me because I talk to them first. I try to make jokes and laugh along with my friends even when I don't necessarily understand what they are talking about, and I really hate myself for that.

Its not that I want a lot of attention, I dont. I just want someone to call me pretty once in my life, aside from my relatives and neighbors.

No matter what I do with my hair or my clothes, I never feel like I am truly pretty or that I stand out. I also never know how to act with others. When im with this one friend, Cora, I try to mimic her personality and be an outgoing jokester. But when I am with my other friend, Norah, I try to agree with everything she says and just play along. when I hang with my other friend, Riana, I act like a 'popular' girl and try to make myself feel like I am as gorgeous as she is.

Idk what to do anymore. Every time I feel good about myself, I immedietely feel ugly when im in the presence of other girls at school...what do I do?

Self confidence issues

Thu, 07 May 2020 00:04:39 +0000

I really need help. I am a tall girl with pale blue eyes and light brown hair. And I hate it. While my friends call me slim, I say that I look like a chopstick. While people say they love my eyes, I say that they look creepy. I have SERIOUS SELF CONFIDENCE ISSUES. Not inly does it affect me, it is starting to affect my friends. They cant stand to see me put myself down the way I do. I wish I could stop to but every time I look in the mirror I wish I saw something else.