Labeling

Fri, 27 Mar 2020 17:25:47 +0000

So, for a while now I have labeled myself lesbian. But lately, I have been questioning that.

Also, if you don’t support the Lgbtq+ community, just don’t click on this or comment. I don’t want your hate.

So, basically, I was writing in my journal one night, and I randomly started to write about if I should label myself lesbian. The names of certain people have been replaced with an emoji. The entry is as follows:

So, I don’t know if I’m allowed to label myself lesbian yet, considering I have only like-liked one person, , 10th grade, dancer, my one and only (true) crush. She’s so cute and I can’t get over it. I can’t help feeling like I need to be perfect around her. But does this mean I’m lez? I mean, I could be bi or pan, it doesn’t mean I’m lez because I’ve only liked one person. Yes, she’s a girl, but I might like boys in the future. Whew, I needed to digest that.

This had been over my head for a few days prior to the entry (March 13th, 2020), but it still does now. I don’t know when I’ll like someone else, but I don’t even know if I should label myself yet. What do you guys think? Are there rules to being lez and bi and pan and such that I need to know?

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