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I JUST ACCIDENTALLY CAME OUT TO MY SIBLING

Sun, 10 Nov 2024 02:06:54 +0000

So I was questioning coming out to my sister as a therian, so I wrote out a text message to see if I would actually want to do it and i didnt want to. So I was going to click the delete button but I hit the send button instead. And It turns out that .. she knew. Actually my whole family knew. They realize it when I started wearing a tail around them. I'm kinda embarrassed. Not for being a therian but just because I didn't know that they knew. :l

So I kinda came out to my mom

Thu, 27 Jun 2024 22:35:21 +0000

Well, I really hate my sister! So she went to a sleepover and told her friend's mom and she told my mom! And mom went crazy,And she and grandma had a "prayer meeting". and what's worse I told them that I wasn't Bisexual! But my mom said that she would still love me but she wouldn't allow it...... So yeah, big fail....

I came out to my lil, sister!!

Sun, 23 Jun 2024 20:14:07 +0000

So this morning I came out to my sister. I asked her if she would still love me if was bisexual, and she said yes. ( that was last night) so this morning I said "remember last night?" And she's like " yeah, what about last night? (PS.she is 9) and I said " I've never trusted Anyone like this before, but....... I'm bi.and she's like" really!! ( I nood my head.) Seriously!?" When she said seriously I went into bisexual worry panic! So I'm like " DON'T. TELL. MOM!! "And she's like" chill, I won't tell mom, oh,and by the way, I'm bi too. I roll my eyes in compassion. Aren't little sisters the best! And thanks for your help, you guys helped me come out. Bye!!

I came out

Thu, 09 May 2024 17:29:56 +0000

So...I did not think I was going to do this today, but I did. I was talking to my best friend about crushes, and I said, "I have had two crushes this year." and she was like, "OMG who??" and I was like...ummm...ahhh...,"well in the beginning of the year I liked (a boy) and then (a girl)." And she was like, "OMG" and was totally accepting. I'm not scared that she will treat me differently because another one of her good friends is gay. I do not intend to tell anyone else because some of my other friends are homophobic. She is the only person who knows, and I am at her house right now, but I am about to leave, and I currently feel like I'm going throw up, but I have also never been happier. I trust her not to tell anyone.

I came out

Thu, 09 May 2024 17:28:53 +0000

Bisexuslaty

Thu, 11 Jan 2024 20:09:17 +0000

I'm 11 years old, and for the past few months I descoverd I'm bi. I know beucase I have had a crush on boy's and girl's (I'm female) and I have came out to all my frends, but not my mom. I don't know how to tell her. what should I do?

Questioning..

Thu, 06 Apr 2023 04:26:35 +0000

So I am 12 but I kind of know I am Pansexual (at least that's what im calling myself right now). I don't really have a preference but if i had to choose I would prefer girls.

Anyway, I already came out to my dad and he supports but he thought I was too immature to know my sexuality at such a 'young' age, but I've known since I was 10 and the only person I've been able to tell was my friend. My mom also knows and she supports but I know deep down she also thinks its just another one of my weird phases.

So yeah I've only really been able to tell my friends. In the beginning I thought I was lesbian because I had a crush on this girl in my class. We became really good friends and I eventually told her I liked her, which is when she told me that she was actually a Trans Masc and used he\they pronouns now. I was very happy for him but it made me question myself again, and when I did more research I found out I was Pan. I was very happy about it.

Then he (I will call him Jay for privacy reasons) started crushing on this girl named Abby. I was so jealous because we had "dated" for a few months until he just broke up with me one day. I had actually seen it coming though, since he hadn't been himself. I was heartbroken, because I am Aroace and have difficulty expressing feelings. I had never liked anyone before besides him.

We stayed friends though and he started chasing Abby. Naturally I was happy that he was finally in love with someone but I still liked him and I felt very awkward around her.

Then my other friend Kate, who I am kind of friend-aquaintance with, told me that her ad Abby had been chatting and Abby told her that she didn't actually like Jay, and that he made her uncomfortable. I was surprised because Abby had been holding Jays hand everywhere and acting all romantic and I thought she liked Jay back but I guess not. I didn't know how to tell Jay though cause naturally he was one of my closest friends and it was really hard but eventually I just broke and told him. He though I was joking at first but a few weeks later Abby confirmed it and apologized to Jay.

Idk what to do, because I like Jay and Abby knows that but I know he doesn't have feelings for me anymore.

I also don't know my gender identity. My assigned birth gender is Female btw. I feel like a Trans Masc but also Non Binary and also Female at the same time. I also feel like none of them but all of them. It's a weird feeling. right now I am using He\She\They pronouns until I figure it out. Im sorry this was so long but does anyone have any advice?? (im sorry if this seems way too dramatic and weird btw, because it fully is haha)

bisexual

Fri, 20 Aug 2021 11:29:43 +0000

here is a common confusion about being bisexual. bisexual means you are tracked to more than one gender. not just males and females.

i came out

Fri, 20 Aug 2021 11:25:32 +0000

this was so easy. in the car my mom asked if I liked girls or boys! btw I'm bisexual

Am I bi?

Wed, 02 Dec 2020 16:52:56 +0000

Hi everyone...

This is taking a lot of courage but am I bi? So, I recently turned 11. When I think of my sexuality, I think of me being bisexual and I quite like the idea. So far, no crushes on girls. I have had some on boys though. I do think that some girls are very pretty, for example, My bff, Camila Cabello, ect. I can’t imagine myself kissing a girl. But I still feel bi. Thank you so much for listing and sorry if this was a burden. :(

thanks

Questioning my sexuality (AGAIN) ;-;

Mon, 01 Jun 2020 16:42:44 +0000

Y’all know I’m bi. I’ve made it pretty darn clear from the first things I posted. I’m not so sure now, though.

Some days I’m 100% sure I’m bi/lesbian, but recently I’m going through a straight-phase and I’m wondering if I’m actually straight all along.

Maybe I’m lying to myself, to get attention (although how can I get attention in my awkward semi-closeted state?). Or maybe it’s to feel different and special from everyone else. Maybe it’s to feel I belong in a community.

My friends all talk about boys and I can’t stop thinking about them any more (boys, not my friends). My boy-crushes have got so much stronger than all my girl-crushes. I actually want to be attracted to girls, because they’re so pretty and nice and everything, but I almost can’t any more.

LGBT+ young people hate it when The Straights say “you’re too young to know”, but maybe I am. I’m only just turned 12 years old, and I’m having a full-scale freakout over my sexuality. I’m not anywhere near the legal age of consent, I’m far too young to be thinking about boys/girls/whoever I end up dating, this shouldn’t matter to me at this age! I should be obsessing over Harry Potter and memes and homework and stuff (although I already do that far too much), not worrying about grown-up stuff. Identity crises are not for pre-teens! Sometimes I make myself so flarfing* mad.

I know that bisexuals get really annoyed when The Straights say “it’s just a phase” or “you’re just confused” or “you’ll eventually pick one gender”, but what if it’s true? What if I am just confused, or in a phase? What if I’m straight? This stupid heteronormative world has got me stumped.

Please help me! I would really appreciate any advice or support from anyone (even if you don’t support it) :)

*all credit goes to Luna for making up that awesomely spectacular word :P

I accidentally came out to my dad!

Tue, 12 May 2020 18:29:51 +0000

So today I was struggling with my schoolwork a bit and my dad was helping me with it. He says, “you got feedback from your HE teacher on your food waste assignment,” so he opens up Microsoft Teams on his phone to find the assignment page to show me my grade.

*info for those who do not use Microsoft Teams: there is a section where you put a mini-bio on your account if you swipe sideways. Only the top couple of lines are visible unless you tap on it.*

He says, “oh yeah I meant to ask you about this...” and swipes sideways to the description and tapped on it.

*info about what my bio says: I put some stuff about my school friends and my favourite TV show to fill the first couple of lines so if my dad accidentally swiped and found the bio he wouldn’t see what I wrote next. What I wrote next was “Oh yeah, I’m LGBT+ (rainbow flag emoji) so if you’re homophobic please go away.”*

So my dad taps on my bio and shows that part to me. Then he just said, “what’s going on?” (I was sweating and shaking so hard at this point) and I said, “I’m bisexual.” (I nearly died of anxiety and terror).

My dad says, “Huh. Just so you know, that’s fine, I don’t mind if you’re gay or straight or whatever,” (I continue sweating and shaking because I know what he’s going to say next...) “but I don’t think you should be sharing that with your classmates and teachers. You’re a bit young to be thinking about all this, you’ve just got your period a few months ago and your hormones are going nuts so just give yourself time to figure everything out.” (Yup, knew he would say that.) Then he says, “I have no problem with it, but you’re only eleven. You might push your friends away a bit if you tell them all about your sexuality now, you’ve not known them for that long, only since September.” (Still shaking and sweating.)

Then he asks, “how do you know?” (The one question I cannot answer well in my trembling sweaty state). I say, “I just like them.” And my dad says, “As friends? Because you know that means for s*x right?” Of course I know this, but I don’t want to seem weird so I say, “I never really thought about that. I just like them.” My dad says, “who’s ‘them’? What does ‘like’ mean?” (I’m dying inside).

Then we had a long, awkward conversation about ‘liking’. (I just wanted to scream “I’m BI! What do you think it means?! Girls are pretty too! You should know, you’re a straight man! GRRR!”).

After the whole thing was over I was covered in cold, sticky sweat and still visibly shaking. I had to sit through another 45 minutes or so of my dad awkwardly watching me work. Now that I think about it, he probably knew and was waiting for me to confirm his suspicions. He probably told my mum as well. Oh flarf...

Well to sum it up: my dad outed me, he’s fine with it but thinks I’m too young, my mum probably knows too and I nearly died of dehydration from all the sweating and trembling. Sorry it was so long, I just had to get it out of my system and tell some people.

What should I do? Can you help please?! (before 9am GMT on 13th May, if possible?) Thanks for being so supportive :)

What are the gayest stereotypes you can think of?

Sun, 10 May 2020 16:31:33 +0000

I’m trying to look/act more gay... my parents don’t know any lesbian/bisexual clothes or mannerisms so this is like my little in-joke. What are the gayest/most bisexual stereotypes you know? (Cuffed jeans, not sitting in a chair properly etc.)

I’ve Decided! ...I think... help

Mon, 13 Apr 2020 05:58:14 +0000

So... I have been thinking. Last night I stayed up stupidly late playing ‘can we guess your sexuality’ quizzes. Man, it’s confusing. Anyway, I think I have come to a conclusion... (sort of)

I am still bi.
I have upped my Kinsey Scale rating to 3.7. (about 3/5 lesbian and 2/5 straight).
I am equally biromantic (romantic relationships with girls and boys).
I am bisexual, but leaning towards girls. (s*xual relationships with girls over boys).

I know I am much too young for any sort of relationship and I am definitely not looking for anything now. I know some of you won’t understand why I am deciding this now, but it’s not set in stone. I will change my labels as my feelings change.

peace :)

Bi Crushes

Thu, 26 Mar 2020 18:57:51 +0000

Hi! I have several crushes (girls and boys) and I am going to write a description of each of them. I’m not looking for a relationship (I’m only 11), I just fancy them. Get ready for one long post.

My main girl crush goes to my school and is at least four years older than me. She has these amazing clear light blue eyes. She has curly brown hair and is growing out her fringe, so she pins it to both sides with little clips. I can’t really describe her face except the fact that she is soooo pretty. She wears not much makeup but her skin glows. I don’t know her name or what class she’s in but I know she’s on the senior dance team and in fourth/fifth form. Whenever I see her it makes me happy because she’s really pretty and I like her a lot. Because school is closed (because of coronavirus) I probably won’t see her until September and if she’s in fifth form and leaving school after her GCSEs I might never see her again.

My main boy crush has been my friend since I was born but he lives in Scotland and I live in Northern Ireland so I don’t see him very often. We’ve joked about us being together when we were younger, when we were 8 I asked him to be my ‘boyfriend’ and when we were 9 he told me I was one of his two crushes. He’s cute, shares a lot of my interests, is a very nice person and I already know him really well. About a year and a half ago he and his two brothers fell out with me and my sister, it was a sort of boy-hormones vs. girl-hormones constant insults and competitiveness fight. I haven’t seen him and his brothers since last Easter but I’ve seen their parents. I won’t see them at Easter and probably not in the summer because of coronavirus and I don’t know whether he still hates me or bears grudges or whatever.

The other girl crush is just a sixth-form girl I passed in the school corridor and thought, ‘wow, she’s pretty.’ Now I like thinking about her but it’s not a proper crush.

The other boy crush is a girl from my dance group’s brother and holy guacamole, he was cute. I used to wonder if he would come to watch her and I would dance my very best when he did turn up. I saw him at an event my group danced at and I felt I had done very well acting normal around him until I ate a very warm, messy crêpe in front of him and got some on my hoodie. It did taste great, though. I’m starting to get over this crush now as I haven’t seen him for months and the feelings are slowly going away.

I’ve had other crushes (including awkward flash crushes on friends - maybe i’ll post about that soon?) but these are the most active ones. These are only people I’ve met in real life, celebrity crushes are worthy of a whole other post.

If you made it this far, well done! I salute you for your patience. If you have any advice or thoughts, I’d like to hear it. Thanks for reading this :)

I'm happy.......

Fri, 22 Nov 2019 08:20:20 +0000

So, I have another crush that I didn't mention in my post about my crush's.Today she(we'll just call her Kaylee)anyway, today Kaylee asked me who my crush's were.I just said "You already know" she answered "No, your girl crush's".So, I named them.She looked at me and smiled as she said "Why are you looking at me weird".I obviously said I wasn't but Kaylee read my mind and said "I'm one of them aren't I".All I said was "maybe" but that was a dead giveaway."It's fine if you do, cause I like you" she said (she recently found out she was bi too).I admitted that I liked her, and told her that I didn't want a relationship, because we are to young and plus, elementary relationships don't last.Now we're in a position where we both like each other and we show it.I'm really happy we're in this position.

Guys, I'm bi

Mon, 04 Nov 2019 20:01:03 +0000

Just today, I realized I am bisexual.I noticed how low activity is here, and I encourage any users who are LGBTQ+ to post here!

KidzTalk - Recent questions tagged bisexual

I JUST ACCIDENTALLY CAME OUT TO MY SIBLING

So I kinda came out to my mom

I came out to my lil, sister!!

I came out

I came out

Bisexuslaty

Questioning..

bisexual

i came out

Am I bi?

Questioning my sexuality (AGAIN) ;-;

I accidentally came out to my dad!

What are the gayest stereotypes you can think of?

I’ve Decided! ...I think... *help*

Bi Crushes

I'm happy.......

Guys, I'm bi

I’ve Decided! ...I think... help