KidzTalk - Recent questions tagged please-help-me

How to play ROBLOX on school IPad in EUROPE, SPAIN??

Sun, 10 Nov 2024 20:20:30 +0000

Pls explain it to me in detail, I’m dumb as a Rock :<

I JUST ACCIDENTALLY CAME OUT TO MY SIBLING

Sun, 10 Nov 2024 02:06:54 +0000

So I was questioning coming out to my sister as a therian, so I wrote out a text message to see if I would actually want to do it and i didnt want to. So I was going to click the delete button but I hit the send button instead. And It turns out that .. she knew. Actually my whole family knew. They realize it when I started wearing a tail around them. I'm kinda embarrassed. Not for being a therian but just because I didn't know that they knew. :l

something scary happened today...

Tue, 07 Jul 2020 23:32:04 +0000

Today I was out all day playing with my friends and my little sister. I remember my dad having a headache and not feeling well then going for a lie down. I got annoyed at something or other my friend had done and came in for a while. I sat down and started a Duolingo French lesson.

My mum came downstairs in a hurry. She told me my dad was really not well and she had called an ambulance. She told me to go and find my sister, so I ran outside and down the street. I told my sister that dad wasn’t well and there were paramedics coming, and that she needed to come home right now. I was so worried and shocked that I couldn’t tell her properly, so she thought I was joking. We ran back to our house and went upstairs.

My dad was sitting on the bed. His speech was slurred and he couldn’t pronounce some consonants. He couldn’t move his right arm because it had gone all floppy. He also had a headache and felt weak. I was thinking that I knew these were symptoms of a stroke, and I mentioned that. I was panicking and thinking the worst, I started crying. My sister was smiling awkwardly and she didn’t seem to be that worried, but now I know that was just her way of getting through it.

My mum called our friends’ mum and asked if my sister and I could stay at theirs for a while. I didn’t know whether I should go or not, but I did in the end. My friend made us all smoothies and we sat and talked away from my sister and her friend. I cried again, it was tense and awkward but she was really nice about it and didn’t seem to mind. It was very odd because we had to stay 2 metres away from each other, but all we wanted to do was hug.

My friend and I went into another room, well ventilated of course, and we talked about random stuff. I made some bad jokes as humour is my defence mechanism, and it helped a bit. I felt guilty because I didn’t want to stop thinking about my dad, but I knew I would go into a downward spiral. Taking my mind off it helped a bit, but being happy and distracted made me nervous.

We ate tea at their house, I couldn’t eat much. We went outside afterwards and lit the outdoor fire. Then we made s’mores. They went totally out of their way to help us. My friend and I went inside again and watched some of a comedy show i like. My friends’ mum kept getting phone calls and text messages and I was constantly on edge that they would be terrible news. Eventually my mum came and picked me and my sister up and we came home.

My dad is currently in the hospital. He called us earlier and told us not to worry. His voice is back to normal now. They’re running checks and tests to see what happened. They think it’s something to do with migraines - our family gets really bad ones. It’s nearly half past midnight when I’m writing this. I know I should sleep, but I can’t. I’ll share updates when we get the diagnosis, and when he comes home.

I accidentally came out to my dad!

Tue, 12 May 2020 18:29:51 +0000

So today I was struggling with my schoolwork a bit and my dad was helping me with it. He says, “you got feedback from your HE teacher on your food waste assignment,” so he opens up Microsoft Teams on his phone to find the assignment page to show me my grade.

*info for those who do not use Microsoft Teams: there is a section where you put a mini-bio on your account if you swipe sideways. Only the top couple of lines are visible unless you tap on it.*

He says, “oh yeah I meant to ask you about this...” and swipes sideways to the description and tapped on it.

*info about what my bio says: I put some stuff about my school friends and my favourite TV show to fill the first couple of lines so if my dad accidentally swiped and found the bio he wouldn’t see what I wrote next. What I wrote next was “Oh yeah, I’m LGBT+ (rainbow flag emoji) so if you’re homophobic please go away.”*

So my dad taps on my bio and shows that part to me. Then he just said, “what’s going on?” (I was sweating and shaking so hard at this point) and I said, “I’m bisexual.” (I nearly died of anxiety and terror).

My dad says, “Huh. Just so you know, that’s fine, I don’t mind if you’re gay or straight or whatever,” (I continue sweating and shaking because I know what he’s going to say next...) “but I don’t think you should be sharing that with your classmates and teachers. You’re a bit young to be thinking about all this, you’ve just got your period a few months ago and your hormones are going nuts so just give yourself time to figure everything out.” (Yup, knew he would say that.) Then he says, “I have no problem with it, but you’re only eleven. You might push your friends away a bit if you tell them all about your sexuality now, you’ve not known them for that long, only since September.” (Still shaking and sweating.)

Then he asks, “how do you know?” (The one question I cannot answer well in my trembling sweaty state). I say, “I just like them.” And my dad says, “As friends? Because you know that means for s*x right?” Of course I know this, but I don’t want to seem weird so I say, “I never really thought about that. I just like them.” My dad says, “who’s ‘them’? What does ‘like’ mean?” (I’m dying inside).

Then we had a long, awkward conversation about ‘liking’. (I just wanted to scream “I’m BI! What do you think it means?! Girls are pretty too! You should know, you’re a straight man! GRRR!”).

After the whole thing was over I was covered in cold, sticky sweat and still visibly shaking. I had to sit through another 45 minutes or so of my dad awkwardly watching me work. Now that I think about it, he probably knew and was waiting for me to confirm his suspicions. He probably told my mum as well. Oh flarf...

Well to sum it up: my dad outed me, he’s fine with it but thinks I’m too young, my mum probably knows too and I nearly died of dehydration from all the sweating and trembling. Sorry it was so long, I just had to get it out of my system and tell some people.

What should I do? Can you help please?! (before 9am GMT on 13th May, if possible?) Thanks for being so supportive :)

I’ve Decided! ...I think... help

Mon, 13 Apr 2020 05:58:14 +0000

So... I have been thinking. Last night I stayed up stupidly late playing ‘can we guess your sexuality’ quizzes. Man, it’s confusing. Anyway, I think I have come to a conclusion... (sort of)

I am still bi.
I have upped my Kinsey Scale rating to 3.7. (about 3/5 lesbian and 2/5 straight).
I am equally biromantic (romantic relationships with girls and boys).
I am bisexual, but leaning towards girls. (s*xual relationships with girls over boys).

I know I am much too young for any sort of relationship and I am definitely not looking for anything now. I know some of you won’t understand why I am deciding this now, but it’s not set in stone. I will change my labels as my feelings change.