She ditched me AGAIN

Question

At this point I'm feeling like she us a fake friend. 

We did yesterday but she said we could when she got home and now she's spending time with her fam. 

Please help me. I feel she's a fake friend. Is she?

If so how can I end the friendship?

If no, what can I do to not feel like she ditched me? 

Should I 

1. End the friendship
2. Tell her to spend less time with her family ( in other words be more like me)
3. Ask for proof whenever she goes to Dorney ( where she usually goes when she says she can't)
4. Retell her how suddenly changing plans makes me feel
5. Other ( please specify)

Follow up to the follow up to my griend bailed on me.

Today is the worst day for me. HELP!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

If she's ignoring you and canceling your plans that many times, then something is definitely up. I understand things happen, but that many coincidences means it isn't a coincidence anymore.

I reccomend doing number 4 and then number 1. Tell her how it makes you feel and if she continues acting rude to you then just end the friendship. I know its hard and I know you probably don't want to (nobody does), but if shes going to be toxic and cancel your plans that many times then she isn't a good person. You deserve a lot better than that.

- Dino

Answer 2

how long have you to been freinds

i know this a long time ago but ya i think she should spend time with her family more than you.

p.s Nicole101

Answer 3

Your friend is probably a fake friend, and I think you should end the friendship. Just go tell your friend in-person, look them in the eye, and tell her that you will end the friendship directly (as in no small talk, and no hints).