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Hey!! Had a few questions for ya...

Boys, don’t read any further. It’s gonna be graphic. Yeah, it’s about the b-word. Boobs. So, stop now and thank me later.

K. So now that we got rid of the creeps, my 4 questions:

1) I have budding breasts. I am 10 y.o. You know, that uncomfortable stage right after flatness where they jiggle and hurt at every little thing. You aren’t there yet? Oh, it’s fun. *sarcasm alert*

2) So many of my friends already got their period and I WANT TO HAVE IT SOON. And no, don’t answer this with a “oh, you don’t want it.” Or, “everyone grows at their own pace.” I just feel kinda left out and I REALLY want to grow.

3) I’m sorta getting curious bout babies...

4) Uh... boys. Like I mentioned before, I’m TEN. Yet I have so many crushes! Is it normal?? My mom started getting her first crushes at like 15, and my dad, well, I don’t really know about him. My mom also told me that I shouldn’t start dating and liking boys until I’m about 12/13 (she was apparently a late bloomer) but I think that I just have those fun, raging hormones that make you have those absolutely great (sarcasm, remember?) mood swings and huge crushes.

Thanks, girls! Boys, I’m disappointed in you guys. I told you not to read this. That might have just changed my mind in y’all. See ya.

Nora

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does that mean i am rare?  i have it and i am 9
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Maybe? You can get it between ages 9-15, but it is a little rare to get it at 9.
by (106k points)
girl i feel u. I'm ten 2 and I just got breast buds 2. I only have one crush though. And also, I only had one period and its rly not that bad. But theres LOTS of blood. B rdy.
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U don’t wanna grow, trust me
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AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH THE OWNER OF A BABY?!?!?!
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When do girls start getting a bigger chest? Is it a pain? And what's discharge? (

I'm Just a girl that stresses about this stuff)
by (450 points)
WHAT!?!?!?
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Same, girl
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Discharge is white stuff that dries yellow in your pants. You get it a few years or so before u get ur period.
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Listen girl, I’m 12 and I already have my period since last year and I have BIG b0obs… you don’t need to worry much abt big b0obies muvh it’s kinda normal but not.. yk? **** don’t worry trust me you will get your period soon and prepare. Because you never know at your age you can get yours so just have some prepared feminine stuff (pads) for future! Oh and panties. But don’t worry too much on b0obs yk, your mom can help u it’s normal :)



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ago by (11.4k points)
Oh inky pinky ponky , oh daddy bought a donky, oh inky pinky ponky, oh daddy bought a donkey, donkey di3d daddy crieeeed (oh inky pinky ponkyyyy)
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1. Yeah that stage hurts but it will be gone soon but when you are in that stage PLEASE WEAR A BRA (Too many girls don't and it looks REALLY inappropriate)

2. All I'm going to say is a period HURTS like 100x more than the  budding breasts

3. Ummm.... please no

4. GIRL having crushes is SO NORMAL but sometimes they can be mistaken as crushes

Love you hope you have a good day
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"it’s about the b-word. Boobs."
ur more likely gonna get a boy to continue reading this than to scare them away.
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true
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WHOA you did not have to point that out...
by (22.6k points)
I'm pretty sure they did have to
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We all pretty much knew that though...
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Yo! Justacatlover here! Well I can't really help u with the babies and boys bit bc I'm 10 too but interested in girls I think... It's confusing! I know this was sent in 2020 but..... Yeah. I want my period too.
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Finna flip a brick word to donda

Shout out

To obamba
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Bro, I was just going down your answers and this may be by far the most random XD
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Hi,

I know you had 4 questions and I could answer all of them but I really want to answer these 2.

3 and four

The first one, 3, that is totes norm! I’m ten right now and I’m also interested in babies! Trust me. VERY INTERESTED!!!!!!!! Anywho… I know you are prob around 12 or 13 right now because this was from 2020. Buuuuuuuuut…

Then the second one #4

Look.

I was interested in boys at 6 or 7. Ten is DEF NORM!

Hope that helps even if you are fine now. lol

Plus #2.… I know you said don’t say this but, you REALLY don’t want it. I want it. But my mom keeps telling me it’s not to pleasant! Even though you prob have it by now.
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Bro, i had a boyfriend at nine y.o and i told my mom and she tol me to break up with him. We liked eachother. Dont let people do that ever. Oh, and i was interested in this one kid at 5 years old. When i was invited to his party, oak harbor bounce in, i quietly sang to my self about my crush. Like, i didnt even like like him. He was just a HOTTIE

dont be fooled by looks
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about number two I was totally there with you the whole time I wanted it more than anything else on Earth Everyone told me I didn't want it and be horrible but I have it now and I don't hate it It's not that bad really and I don't see what they're talking about Its side effects come anyways I got mine at age 11 or 12 but you'll probably get here sooner I was a late bloomer but about the boys trust me they get GROSS quick I was boy crazy till 6th when I realized EW.
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Don't worry,Nora. I am going through that too.It's starting to hurt again.For me at least.I'm 12 years old.And I, last year,Was going through the same as you.I think they just go back and forth, like they hurt and then they don't.I'm going through it now and it goes back and forth.I had to go to the doctors because I thought that I something was wrong. And the doctor had to check my You know what. And she said I was just budding.So don't worry you'll be fine.

PS Can you send me your number so we can talk?If that's okay with you.
+2 votes
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Dead Nora,

I have a problem sort of like that. I don't know if it is a breast bud but anyways.....

it is ok to feel like that.if you need help to go your mom.she knows best.
+3 votes
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Hi Nora!

So I’m trans, which means I have a girl body blah blah whatever, any way, it IS normal to have crushes at ten.
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Hey! I'm lesbian and just wondering what's it like being trans? I'm 10 how old are u? Promise I'm not some creep but don't answer if u don't want to...



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