mental support please :(

Question

So my brother has lately been telling me "i didn't think you were this stupid" and "how is your memoery so bad" "and it's just because she was being an idiot" he got really frustrated because i threw the full shreded cheese bag away during dinner without realizing, then when he asked where it was and i couldn't remember. he got really mad :( i guess i am stupid

Answer 1

You're one of the most intelligent people I know.

Comments

thanks :D

Answer 2

Its fine. People space out a lot, like i have put a spoon in the compost and ketchup in the sink before. It happens!

Comments

yeah, i put milk in the sink and a plate in the fridge

Answer 3

Tell me I told him he sucks

U can PM me if u want!

You dont deserve that )):

Comments

thanks, tapioca :)

---

np :3

Answer 4

Dw, I have the EXACT same problem, I'll look for something for half an hour, ask my dad where it is, and it will be right in front of me TwT

This sounds upsetting, and I would first try to ask your brother to stop and explain how it makes you feel, and if he doesn't stop, just tell your parents. I had the same problem with a friend who would constantly "joke" and frequently call me a not very nice word, and I talked to them about it. They stopped but we aren't friends anymore lol.

Comments

i might try talking to him

Answer 5

I'm sure your very smart! I am kinda slow and dumb but I'm also smart. That's most people. We all make miskated

Comments

thanks :)

Answer 6

Don't worry! I have the same issues. My observation skills are in the negatives. I will be looking for the taco sauce, and it's right in front of my face. I DUNNO WHERE IT IS!

Mom walks up, grabs the sauce from nowhere. WAAA-

Your brother should not be saying that. Calling someone stupid as a joke is fine, but telling people that in public when it's not true? BIG NO NO.

Comments

yeah, like when your looking for something and you ask a person for help and they find it in 2 seconds