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Question

I don't know what to do right now, I'm so confused...

So here's the story, ill try to make it easy to read

Saturday- I went to the dance with my girlfriend, great time btw, it was so fun!

Sunday- No text back, she told me that sometimes her mom takes her phone just bc she "needs a break" from it

Monday- she doesn't come to school

Tuesday- 8:50 something I get a text from her, its literally just "I'm sorry but I cant do this anymore."

Currently I have spammed her phone and gotten nothing, and this is NOT like her at all

you guys don't know her the way I do but shes NEVER like this, shes SO loving and I don't know what happened

like everything was fine and then...

so yea I had a almost-panic-attack in first hour and I don't know what's going on

this is why I don't do relationships

Comments

ok so I get that to so it might be her mom and well she might not want her around you unless you know her mom but she might not want her dating and I don't see why she ant it is her life so i would you keep texted her or try to go to her house she might be mantal so you must check on her iv had it happen I stop people for ending anything so I get it

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sorry I had spelling errors lol but keep tabs no her and I need an update!!!!

Answer 1

I don't think her family life is doing too well. But the very minimal information you've given me, something happened between her and her mother (probably about dating you and LGBTQ).

Most likely her mother has been disapproving for a while and that night there was a big fight.

She wants to break up to get approval of her mother and to stop being mentally abused. (From what I can tell)

I wish her the best, and I hope you understand this might not be her fault.

Comments

ok your really wise your really cool to!

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Thanks, you seem pretty cool yourself :)

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dude u got it 100 % right I just got more info and its just all her moms fault

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Yep. Sorry life has to be like this. 

Answer 2

this could mean MANY things. From reading the comments i think it is because of her mom. HOPEFULLY that gets figured out for you two so you guys dont lose your bond

but based off her mental state i would HIGHLY recommend you keep an eye out. Being "perfectly fine a day ago" and going home then IMMEDIETLY switching up is a horrible sign and she could end up harming herself

Comments

look at the other post related to this.

Answer 3

Just give it some time, spamming doesn't necessarily make it better. Not that's its bad to be concerned but it could stress her out even more.

Answer 4

I hope everything ok with her. Ive never been in a relationship so i dont have any advice, but I hope everything turns out ok.