lavender beef

Question

his days of ragebait are over

(he's been trolling me over pms and I'm pretending to be understanding and submissive to make him think I'm on his side XD)

- Lavenderthecat:3 in a comment to a now-deleted post

 Ragebait, eh?

Naccim -> Lavenderthecat:3   2026-04-14 21:59:58

Bro why do you hate me ? i dont have any beef with you, I'm chill if you're chill

[Context: she said she hated me] 

Naccim -> Lavenderthecat:3   2026-04-14 22:16:09

If it's that "womp womp" comment, i mainly posted that for the sake of answering and point farming lol, I'm sorry if that offended you

Naccim -> Lavenderthecat:3   2026-04-14 22:28:26

Oh whoops i mixed you up with TCF, ignore that last PM (i have bad memory) ? 

Naccim -> Lavenderthecat:3   2026-04-15 16:32:59

I'm not transphobic.

[Context: she called me transphobic]  

Lavenderthecat:3 -> Naccim   2026-04-21 14:49:26

oh um wait I thought u said smth...... that may have been someone else uh wow I feel rly bad- I can be kinda quick to despise someone even tho I'm usually pretty chill sorry!

Naccim -> Lavenderthecat:3   2026-05-19 14:15:47

Wow you're really great at sticking to your promises and being chill

[Context: she said she hated me... again]  

Lavenderthecat:3 -> Naccim   2026-05-20 18:16:07

sorry that's completely fair actually I'm not sure what exact occasion ur talking about but I'm gonna assume its the willy thing.... I'm usually so calm irl and I just hold in so much anger and I crash out on here and that's not fair to ppl on here and I cant do that. I should try harder.

Lavenderthecat:3 -> Naccim   2026-05-23 17:03:36

Dude I feel like being a good person is more important than superficial point systems

Lavenderthecat:3 -> Naccim   2026-05-23 18:20:55

I'm not gonna be chill if someebodys being rude to someone else. also, I feel like being a good person is more important than a superficial point system on freaking kid reddit.

Naccim -> Lavenderthecat:3   2026-05-23 19:04:24

What are you talking about

Naccim -> Lavenderthecat:3   2026-05-23 19:09:12

If you're talking about Chris, remember that this is the kid that called me neurotypical just because I'm cishet.

Naccim -> Lavenderthecat:3   2026-05-23 21:07:41

"(he's been trolling me over pms and I'm pretending to be understanding and submissive to make him think I'm on his side XD)"

I have NEVER had beef with you until now. Stop talking about "being a good person" as if youre one yourself.

Answer 1

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1. Who the heck thinks that sexuality and gender has anything to do with whether ur neuro typical or not? That’s not true at all…..I wasn’t aware of that situation and I apologize

2. …the whole “I’m pretending 2 b understanding” was like a 2 day phase I had. Couldn’t find the post again to delete my comment, I’m sorry. That was incredibly rude and not true……..

3. That was not ok of me

I don’t know why I crashed out like that

Holy bleep noise

I genuinely feel really bad right now

Why would I say that

I’m not a good person

I genuinely suck so much

You’re right

Oh my god…..

I’m so sorry

What the heck was I thinking

I will delete my account and leave kt forever if you want me to.

I’ll do anything I possibly can to fix this.

Anything.

Comments

don’t leave, lavender! Don’t leave over a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes. I’ve made countless mistakes. I’m pretty sure what chris said was a mistake. And what are mistakes for? Learning from. 

Until dusk…

~ Umber <they/them>

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Thank you

But

Dude in the last week I’ve caused so much drama and said a lot of stuff to so many ppl and I’m just….i don’t even know

I feel terrible….

Answer 2

who summoned me

Comments

No one

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I was summoned I heard the phrase "TCF" a little bird told me

Answer 3

i thought bro was gonna yap about steak doneness

Answer 4

when i read the title, i immediately thought of dried lavender flowers on steak ToT

Until dusk…

~ Umber <they/them>

Comments

Ngl at first same and then I realized