I am always second best to my best friend

Question

Hi I am new you dont know me but I still need your help I always feel second best to my best friend anything I am good at she is better at I know she doset mean to rub it in my face but she dose everything I try and pracdes for she gets even without trying then rubs it in my face later on with out knowing it she wants something like a part in a play she gets it without even adishining it seems last slice of pizza hers i want something and so dose she she gets it she always beates me in everything even thogh i have worked for something my whole life the one thing i have dreamed for my whole life the thing i want to do for the rest of my life she beats me at and dose not even want to do it for the rest of her life she wants something compleatly different and treats me like i cant even do it and have no clue how to do it and will never succeed I know she dose not mean to and is probably just joking but I hate it I hate being second best to her and i cant tell her becase she may get mad at me becase she is one of my best friends help please

Answer 1

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I have a friend like that.

Except she's toxic as heck

Answer 2

Gurl then she is a fake friend. Forget about her. You will find wayy better friends in life

Answer 3

Well I'm in a friendship group and I think if you don't tell her it will get worse. What do you think will happen if you tell her? If she's mean about it then she's not worth being your friend anyway. Maybe she'll say ok then stop? Give it a go!

Answer 4

For one...  I'm pretty sure there is something you're better at.

I have a couple suggestions for your problem:

1. next time you want something don't tell her you want it so she can't beat you to it (She can't read your mind(as far as I know)) and whan you want to try out for something... don't tell her so she won't know.

2. discuss how you feel about this with her