Help. That’s all i can really say.
I’ve had a terrible week. Some of it was some family stuff i cant be bothered to get into but some of it was boy drama. And i know what some of you who have read my other blog posts are thinking, ‘Bella,you go to an all girls school, what sort of boy drama could there be there?’ And i tell you now, there can be a lot.
Here’s a timeline of events
2 weeks ago, goalie training - i was talking to a fellow goalie, (lets call her girl 1) she asked if i know any boys at the all boys school. I say yes. I know my brothers year 7 rat pack and this guy who lives near me. She asks his name and i tell her. She screams. OH MY GOD!!! I KNOW HIM! She says. I say cool, she asks if i like him. I tell her (after much pressing from her) that yes, he’s kinda cute. She says she’s got to tell everyone. I beg her not to. She says she’ll just tell her best friend (let’s call her girl 2), that girl 2 can keep a secret with her life. I cave. Fine i say. Little did i know
1 day later, after school - this girl (girl 3) i know who’s 2 school years above me is questioning me as i talk to my friends about a message i was sent. Because yes, i do overthink these sorts of things. Girl 3 is a friend of ours but obviously she has friends in her year. She freaks out. Basically, girl 2 has an older sister who she told. This older sister (girl 4) told girl 3 because girl 4 is his ex. Yep. You heard that right. I freaked out. Completely. then, girl 1 comes out of our languages and drama building. I talk to her, apparentlly she told girl 2 that i was dating the boy. Im fuming.
Of course i have to get on the school bus to get home so get on. Ofc the boys sister is on the bus so i explain because she knows girl 1. The sister laughs but says that she will make sure that if her brother finds out that she will explain. Im still internally freaking out but it’s fine. It’s fine. It’s really not fine
Yesterday evening, fireworks night (because my brother goes to the all boys school i go to their bonfire night, which is obscenely early but ok…) - girl 1 texts me ‘IM WITH *boys name*.’ I reply cool. She reply’s that she stole my man. I ignore it because there is literally 0 data out there. And then when i manage to get 5g somewhere, she drops the bomb. She told him im telling everyone we’re dating
This morning - he texts me, that i said we were dating. I hurry to clear up the confusion but now im panicking.
Can anyone help me with this situation??????????
Also, sorry I haven’t posted in ages, I’ve had school going on, which when you’ve started GCSE science and maths, as well as are doing a debate and 2 presentations that are going to be reviewed in end of term reports, its kinda a big deal. I should probably be doing homework rn but i just needed to get this off my chest.