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guys please help T_T

soooo erm one of my besties (lets call her billy bob joe) is being kinda weird with me and i’m crashing out 

for a little bit of context, we used to fight all the time around the time we had become good friends (i am aware that sentence doesn’t;t make much sense so bear with me) but we eventually moved past it and honestly, i’m glad we had major beef cuz afterwards we understood each other better and became besties. 

and uh

i don’t wanna sound mean help-

but billy bob joe is a HUGEEEEEEEEEEEE people pleaser to the point it gets annoying as freak. this gurl apologizes over everything under the sun skull she deaduzz apologized for saying she isn’t a big fan of mlp—

i love her a lot but oh my dear sweet GOD its driving me nuts 

i know it comes from a good place… but then i feel like IM a bad person for not apologizing over things she apologizes over, ya know? i always tell her to “sToP bEinG CaNaDiAn but she doesn’t really..

and i have a feeling we’re not gonna last much longer cuz like- ive been texting her a lot and she takes forever to reply and her responses have been kind of …dry? and she’s the least nonchalant person i know. if she’s anything like me, dry texting means she’s upset over something but WHAT WOULD SHE BE UPSET ABOUT RAGHHHHHHHHHHH 

i do have a kinda screwed up sense of humor and i love trolling people (i try not to show that side of myself on here cuz i don’t wanna offend anyone T_T) and i have hurt her feelings in the past accidentally

WHAT IF I MESSED UP AND OFFENDED HER SOMEHOW RAGBCHJDXHGIK

and another thing

we’ve been planning on going roller skating for quite some time now but i’ve been really busy which is another reason why i haven’t been on KT in over a week. i told her yesterday that i may be free this sunday, and she got rly excited and asked her mom who said we could hang out if my mom said that was okay.

WELL I DID

AND TURNS OUT MY MOM WAS ALR PLANNING ON GOING SKATING, BUT ONLY WITH MY GS TROOP skull

i asked if billy bob joe could tag along and my mom said no cuz she’s not a girl scout ;-;

i was gonna keep arguing but my mom was getting annoyed so i hightailed it outta there before my ahh was yeeted to mars 

so i told billy bob joe this morning and she just said “It’s ok dw” 

SHES HARDLY EVER THAT DRY 

usually shed be like “NAAAAAAUURRRRRRRRRRRRRR I MISS YOUUUUU *insert something freaky cuz she’s a silly fellow*” 

so i crashed out and started apologizing like crazy cuz im like “oh shoot did i js ruin our friendship” and she still hasn’t replied 

GNG AM I COOKED I THINK IM COOKED RAHHHHHH

shes like one of my only friends who actually texts a lot  (most my other friends be dryer than the sahara desert confused)

HECK SHES ONE OF MY ONKY FRIENDS skull

also on a kinda unrelated note i feel like such a loud and annoying uhhhhh *person* cuz i love ranting about my interests even when its clear the person im ranting to does NOT give a freak :-; 

like ya know they’ll js be like “oh” “cool” “ah” “lol” “*singular emoji*” while im typing up a storm that could blast 98787654 children to the stratosphere broken_heart

then i go back and read what i typed and like wow

HOLY CORNBALL-

billy bob joe is the only person i can rant to abt my own silly lil fandoms without feeling as much of a cornball cuz she actually seems invested in whatever im talking about even if she isn’t in said fandom 

literally when i slept over at her house i explained all the The Dragon Prince mpreg situation grin and she still talks about it even tho shes never seen the show

anygays

jeez i typed so much fear

if u took the time to read the whole thing tysmm and ily <3 

and if u have any advice PLEASE TELL ME-

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As a Canadian, I’m offended by this (not really)
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AHHHH

IVE MISSED YOU SO MUCH (I was going to answer last night, but I saw this at 20:55/8:55 pm, and I have to bring my phone down at 21:00/9:00 pm)

I was seriously debating on making a post asking if anyone knows where you want melting-smiley

And I can semi-relate(I say semi relate, bc Ive never told—been allowed to tell—my friends any of the important things about me. Even on here, I have to hide a big part of from yall bc of my stooopid mother), it sucks to have a falling out with a friend. 

Sadly, I can’t really offer you much advice, because Iv never had a relationship with an IRL friend like that. (As stated before) But I do know what it’s like to lose a friend [this time bc my mother didn’t want me hanging out with an autistic individual confused(even though im 90% sure I have autism, lol) ]

I know you’ll get through this, ml. Even if yall do end up drifting away from each other, that doesn’t mean you can’t stay in touch once in a while. (I have old friend ls from Texas that I still get in touch with once in a while)

Also, I LOVE when you go ranting about all your interests and things you like; it genuinely makes my day to see you happy. 

plz do tell about the dragon prince mpreg situation 

And as someone who both is a moderate people pleaser IRL, and someone who has friends who are ppl pleasers—I get what your saying, but I also understand that she definitely has things to be upset about, she probably has loads to do or expectations to uphold.

But so can say with a certainty that it sounds like you are NOT the one that made her upset. Idk her situation or even her name, but more often then not with ppl pleasers, she’s upset with herself either bc she’s worried she can’t please everyone, or that she now has to much on her plate bc of the ppl pleasing habits.

(Or I could be completely off the radar with this one ToT)

But I get your pain on it being annoying when someone constantly Is apologizing.

If you DO feel like helping her with her people pleasing problems, you can always try and tell her to stop saying sorry so much. (And when she apologizes for that, tell her she doesn’t need to apologize about that)

Anyway, IVE STILL MISSED YOU SO MUCH OMGS

I WAS WANDERING IF YOU WANTED TO GET MARRIED THIS WEEK, BECAUSE YOU TECHNICALLY STARTING KT MARRIAGES BUT WE STILL HAVENT GOTTEN MARRIED BC OF MY LAZY BUT.

Oop, sorry, all caps.eyekisseye

ILYSMMM /p heart

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ITS OKAY, ML!/p

I think that tomorrow would work best, because I’ll be out all day in the snow ‘sledding’ down our driveway.

But tmr I’m free all day!

don’t feel bad! I literally only responded until 4pm T_T

It’s not your fault, ml!/p

Ilysm /p <3333

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Did you die?

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OH MY GOD IM SO SORRY ML

DUDE MY MENTAL HEALTH RANDOMLY CRASHED CYZ A LOTTA STUFF IS HAPPEBING RN AND I GOT REALLY OVERWHELMED AND FIRGOT TO CHECK KT 

 IM SO SORRY ARGHHH I FEEL TERRBKE T_T

IM ALIVE DONT WORRY 

oh my god i feel so bad ToT 

IM SORRY ML 

IM OKAY THO ILYSM/P

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Nah dw

It’s Okk my mental health has been bad too (I’m only 1 day clean now ToT. I’m fine now tho so dw)

Don’t feel bad abt forgetting to check KT,it’s ok, it happens; I’m just glad you didn’t actually dieheart

I’m glad you’re okay now! And if you ever need to vent, you can vent to me if you want! I’m always open :3

ILYSM TOO/p

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oh my hosh are you okay ml?? i didn’t know :(( u can vent/talk to me anytime you need to just know u aren’t alone :((

thank you so much <33 i guess i kinda needed to hear that rn :)

ILYSMMMM/p
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Yes I’m okay! Dw abt me :3. And plus how could you know? I’ve only ever mentioned like 5 times the year and a half Ive been her, so it’s Okk! Aw that’s sweet, I’ll keep it in mind, ty <3

Ofc! If you ever, ever. feel down abt something just come to me and I’ll do my best to cheer you up, ml <3/p

ILYSMMMMMMMM/p

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ilysm ur literally the sweetest person on earth ToT

i really hope u get better soon :((

ill do the exact same thing for u ml/p

ILYSMMMMMMMMMMM/p
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Aww ty, but we all know who’s really the sweetest person on earth (you. It’s you)

(Sorry for late response, got sick and just wanted to sleep 24/7)

ILYSMMMMMMMMMMMM /p
by 🌠 Star Seer (971k points)
it’s alright, do u feel better now? hope u do xx!

ILYSMMMMMMMMMMMMMM/p

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