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So I have these kids called Meadow and Emmy and well.. here’s what happened..

(Btw Meadow is my best friend and we have been friends for a while)

So today at recess, I was pretending to be a fox, and Emmy and Meadow cam over and Emmy said that I looked dumb and stupid when I act like a fox. It hurt my feelings but It wasn’t Meadow being mean, even tho she agrees. It was because..

If Meadow didn’t follow what Emmy told her to do, Emmy would get VERY VERY angry. So Meadow had to lie and be mean just like Emmy is or else she will get mad.

So at the end of the school day, we would talk for a while at the playground at school and talk nice and normal stuff without Emmy bossing Meadow.

I’m still worried about tomorrow. What if something hurts my feelings more? Before you say so, I did leave them alone. They were the ones coming to me and saying mean stuff. I told trusted adults at school and one of them said we will figure something out at the very start of the school day. I’m really scared tho.

So yeah! What do you guys think I should do if they say mean things to me again or get mad at me? I really want to finally be happy the whole school day! I never did :(

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by 🃏 Illusionist (12.3k points)
 
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Hey, friend problems rlly suck, good news is tho everybody has em, no friendship is ever perfect, meadow sounds rlly sweet and sometimes as kids we feel pressured to act a certain way around someone(cough...emmy) my advice is to pull her aside without emmy and talk with her, tell her how what emmy said made u feel, and how it felt when she didnt have ur back and instead agreed, maybe meadow doesnt realize what is happening to her, and maybe if u open her eyes to what shes doing and what emmy is doing it could be helpful, and if she doesnt see or doesnt stop then maybe ur friendship has come to an end, its a sad truth abt life but sometimes ppl grow apart, nobody rlly wants it it js happens, and its hard but u have to realize that ur feelings matter, u shouldnt have to be scared for the next day of school especially bc of friends, whatever happens js remember ur bigger than what they say, its ok to feel insecure but its not okay to allow it to eat u alive, ur a kid u should be living life and having fun not stressing over what somebody will say tmmrw yk? I wish u the best of luck and always remember ur worth ur weight in gold!
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Thank you. But something happened at the end of the day today. Meadow said that when just her would come to me, she will look like she is saying mean things to me but she won’t so I don’t feel guilt when Meadow look’s mad at me. We’re still finding a way for Meadow and me to still be friends without Emmy taking over. I’ll be fine, I didn’t get mad today. (But a lot of kids in my class called me a furry or a therian. I don’t see those words mean tho. I know what they mean regular_smile)

by 🃏 Illusionist (12.3k points)
Im sorry meadow said that, js remember she prolly doesnt know what to do either yk but im glad u and her r still trying to work it out! and hey js ignore those kids dont let them get ya down ever, good job on keeping ur head high when they called u those names, js remember thos arnt exactly rude names especially if u r one, if u r a furry or therian then all they r rlly doing is saying what u r yk so next time they say that js be like Hey thx for noticing! lol
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Get Meadow away from Emmy and I almost guarantee you a friend right there
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How am I going to do that?!?
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by ⚡ Energy Weaver (229k points)
I would tell a trusted adult. They shouldn't be allowed to make fun of you and get away with it
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True but I did tell a trusted adult at school. More than one! (Because it happened every recess!
by ⚡ Energy Weaver (229k points)
That sucks :((((( did they stop?
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No not yet but Meadow is trying not to say mean things to me now. hai

by ⚡ Energy Weaver (229k points)

Well that's good! I hope she really does stop hai

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