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in Venting by 🌠 Star Seer (940k points)
I've got to say, I have some pretty great friends.

Not this one ig. She does have an account here, so I will not say their username bc I don't want people to get mad at them.

Minor details: I'm in orchestra, my friends are in a GC that I'm not in bc I don't have a phone. We have a google slideshow for our friend group (don't ask)

So...what has she done: BTW, I'm going to call her "L"

1. She had told the entire GC that she doesn't have to ask me for permission to add people to our slideshow, which has some very personal things on it. Her reasoning was "We aren't friends anymore" for something that had happened months ago, that we had already apologized for and made up to eachother.

2. Her BFF had said something pretty mean to me in Orchestra, nothing too bad, but bad enough that I would try too tell L. One of my very close friends told her instead bc they could tell her quicker than I could. Guess what? L flat-out denied that that was even POSSIBLE.

3. She told a bunch of people that I was talking badly abt her after orchestra, which didn't happen. She also refused to tell anyone who had told her I was doing that. I suspect that she won't tell who told her that bc she doesn't want people confronting that person, and then FINDING OUT IT NEVER HAPPENED IN THE FIRST PLACE.

*sigh* Thank you for reading that, it means a lot to me.

I will update ASAP

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by ⚡ Energy Weaver (229k points)
 
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...Now I'm curious as to who it is. Also, I'll fight em for you. And tbh, that's just dumb, especially with a GC, like you HAVE to ask. You can't just add who you want. That's not how GC's work
by 🪐 Master (1.63m points)
yea I also want to know who this user is
by 🌠 Star Seer (940k points)
They aren't very well known
by 🪐 Master (1.63m points)
Oh.
by 🪄 Spell Caster (1.7k points)
Me too. Also don’t try to fix the friendship, cut that friend off completely.
by ⚡ Energy Weaver (229k points)
Well, even if they aren't well known, we're still gonna have that curiosity, but it just shows what a good person you are for not calling them out and stuff. And I won't push for an answer or anything
by 🌠 Star Seer (940k points)
:/

Yeah, thanks
by ⚡ Energy Weaver (229k points)
Np. I don't think it was well said on my part, but yeah
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by

Not saying their username shows that you are a good friend. I now want to know who it is. But yeah she definitely sounds toxic with all of that and I've been in situations with toxic friends so I know how it feels and I understand the need to vent. also group chats (or google slides functioning as a group chat) are never ever allowed to be shared without permission from everyone in the chat . they almost always have sensitive personal information on them. If I were you I would delete the slides and make a new one without her or just don't give her permission to share the slides. I be waiting for an update and hope that she stops all of this 

- Cay :)

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