i have a former friend who used to have a crush on me and told me at a bad time but that's a story for another day but the reason we are not friends is cuz she called me the a word and said she hates me well now my BFF is third wheeling me to her and I'm going to my BFFs b-day party and so is she but its a pool party and I'm scared for her to see me in a swimsuit after the sleepover what do I do