So this is an update to a post I made a week or so ago. In case you didn't see that post, here's a basic summary. I have a boyfriend, James, and a friend, Kate. We were a friend group and things were fine until Kate started making fun of my nose and saying it made me look like a bird. I laughed it off but it bothered me. Kate also has this problem where she is happy one day then depressed the next and mad the next. Its very strange and rapid. I talked to James and we decided to drop her through text. I am wondering if I did the right thing though because I still feel like I did something wrong.
Here's the update now:
Kate is on my bus when im at my dads so I see her a lot. We used to sit together but she switched seats. She glares at me in school and steps on the back of my shoes. I smile at her with all my teeth when I see her though because I don't want any more drama and I don't want her to think im sad about losing her even though I kind of am.
So we were in gym class the other day and I was in the locker room chatting with James (He is a trans male btw) and Kate came up to us. She started chatting with James as if they were best friends or something, and ignored me. I was confused and James was just downright uncomfortable. Kate also has been following him around and asking to sit with him during study halls, which James has promptly ignored.
And as I mentioned in the last post, I mentioned that Kate has a crush on both me and James but she lost her crush on me after the incident between us. I am almost positive, and me and James both agreed, that Kate has a crush on James and isn't even trying to hide I anymore.
I have relationship and trust issues and it breaks my heart to see what Kate is trying to do and even though I trust James 100% and know he would never leave me for her, it still makes me so sad. I don't know what to do anymore. Even though im pretty sure I wasn't my fault for what happened between us it still makes me so sad when she glares at me in the halls because I don't want any drama or for anyone to hate me. What do I do?