How do you develop a Freindship ?

Question

I think my problem isn't that I can't make friends it just that I don't move forward with the friendship . any advice ?

I've actually made a lot of friends at My youth group .  I guess its just that they have other freinds there and I feel like I am an intruder you know. Especially there are these four girls there   . Everybody knows them.

Answer 1

I get it. I have the same problem. I have a couple of close friends but when there friends are around I feel like they pretend I’m not there. But I can tell you one thing about developing a friendship don’t expect they are going to really become better friends with you straight away but the easiest way is to play games with them and if you feel left out talk to them tell them how you really feel deep inside. I know some people get uncomfortable by talking about your feelings (I can relate). If you feel that way I recommend starting small like spending more time with them ( but that doesn’t mean all the time just whenever you feel like it) and if they ask to go to a movie or for you to play a game with them try it. I hope this helps.