Good, no fights started. I don't think they really do. They don't define who you are, and if they follow you for life... You could have the best Husband ever, but they made all D's. But that Husband could be an amazing dad, have a good job, kind, Smart, and nice. School doesn't make you smarter. You can learn anything from your parents, your pets, just anything or one! Its more important to learn LIFE LESSONS.