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Hi everyone...

This is taking a lot of courage but am I bi? So, I recently turned 11. When I think of my sexuality, I think of me being bisexual and I quite like the idea. So far, no crushes on girls. I have had some on boys though. I do think that some girls are very pretty, for example, My bff, Camila Cabello, ect. I can’t imagine myself kissing a girl. But I still feel bi. Thank you so much for listing and sorry if this was a burden. :(

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That is usual for girls when they turn 11 or 12. They just feel so close to a girl like a good friend. If the feeling does not stop you should talk to your mm about you feelings. Dont worry. i have a friend going thrught the same stuff.



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I know this post is from almost a week ago however I just felt like putting my two cents in...

Well, I do have a crush on a girl and while I don't plan on making a post on it i have inconspiciously come out many times here, however I'm in no rush to figure out my sexuality so I just call myself "not a ruler"

I mean, I don't think that kids should force themselves to figure out their orientation. BEFORE ANYONE COMES AT ME, I'M NOT SAYING THAT YOU CAN EVER BE TOO YOUNG. I'M JUST SAYING IT'S GOOD TO BE LENIENT AND NOT CONSTRICT YOURSELF. Like, just be open to all crushes but don't push yourself into a box of forced feelings, see what I mean?
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Thank you so much Lemony...

You are an inspiration
by (153k points)
awww np! Anytime :3
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Ok...

 

1) ouch, U stupid hypocrite and especially This person!! That was very hurtful and I hope you choose to be nicer and to write nicer words next time. !! And for this person, I was just to embarrassed to say that I DO like girls. I’m gonna report you to KS.

2) deep breath. Ok. This is taking SO MUCH COURAGE RIGHT NOW. I didn’t write this in my actual post because I was afraid you wouldn’t support me but... I asked out the prettiest, smartest, kindest girl in my class who I’ve liked for a few months now. Turns out she’s lesbian and she immediately said YES!!!  WAHOO!!!!!!

3) thank you for supporting me!
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U stupid hypocrite and This person were really mean... that killed me inside. I was too scared to say anything but I flagged it. Also, congratulations on your girlfriend!
by (82.7k points)
Congrats! But plz don’t date her just bc unlike the idea, k?
by (82.7k points)
Mhm!
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Hmmm... do you experience this?

1. Wanting to date a girl

2. Wanting to kiss a girl

3. Wanting to marry a girl
+1 vote
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I don’t think you are bi because you seem to WANT to be with girls... but that’s just my opinion.
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I mean aren’t
+1 vote
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Liking the idea or thinking girls are pretty does not make you bi. If you can't imagine kissing both genders, then you're not bi.
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I can only imagine kissing a girl but no other genders. Am I lesbian?
by (4.0k points)
If you are a cisgender female. yeah.
+1 vote
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Um, you can’t be bi if you don’t like girls. Not to be rude or anything... it’s just not possible. I’m sorry, but “liking the idea” doesn’t make you bi. If you can’t imagine kissing a girl then you don’t like girls.. even if you “feel” bi.

P.S, Sorry you aren’t bi! You can be an ally!



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