HELP ME!!!

Question

Hey Girls Advice Column!

Sometimes, I feel really stupid. Like a few days ago, I was at school and my friends were laughing at something. I laughed too, thinking it was something else, but then one of my friends said, "You don't even know what we're talking about. It's an inside joke,"

That entire day I felt so dumb, but guess this! My friends didn't even notice. And this isn't the only time I feel left out with them. What should I do?

Comments

This happens to me too

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i KNOW, it sucks...

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That ALWAYS happens to me. Just stand up for yourself and tell them that your no different then the others. That sometimes works. Once my friends were laughing and I came up to them and started smiling then they were like " Dude, mind your own business".

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It always happened to me too.

Answer 1

Yea, stand up to them it always happens to me and if they don’t appreciate  you standing up to them, well then maybe find new friends and hang out with them instead

Answer 2

Happens to me

Answer 3

Hey go check out my post true friends it will help

Answer 4

Tell a trusted parent/guardian. If you want to though, go to a guidance counselor. If they do treat you like that, tell them it hurts you and annoys you, and if that doesn’t work, find some new friends.

Answer 5

Dont laugh if it doesnt seem funny? That is my advice.

Answer 6

That happens to me pretty much every day. Eventually they will forget about it.

Answer 7

Why dont you get some new friends then they might be jealous and try to hangout with you more... Just a thought i dont know if itll work...

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That wont work but its a good thought

Answer 8

That happens to me A LOT. I worry that everybody is talking/laughing about me, and when I mess up I feel stupid for the whole day. My advice is, maybe try talking. to your friends about an inside joke you all share! That’s what works for me most of the time.