love life advice?

Question

so uhm theres a lot to unpile here

lets get started

so my bestest bestie and I broke up, she started dating one of my other besties, they broke up, the same bestie started dating me, we broke up, ANOTHER one of my friends asked to date me, and I really didn't want to because I didn't rly like her, but I didn't want to hurt her feelings, so I said ill think abt it...and then I said ok but I've liked the girl who broke up with me the first time the whole time.. (not saying I didn't like the second person)

heheh 

I think im a little to young for this stuff....

imma tell my current gf I don't like her but I'm scared bc she's just sorta scary.....

Answer 1

GIRL, WAKE UP AND BREAK UP! 

Unfortunately, by staying with her, you're actually just going to end up hurting her even more than if you just told her how you really felt. And there's really no point in dragging it out.

And Joel had a good point and I'm going to piggy-back off of it. Just because you're friends, doesn't mean you should date! I have a few male friends, but I could NEVER date them, even though I enjoy their company! As he said, plenty of time to date later- just be friends! :) 

And no offense, but I do think you may be too young for this. Enjoy your childhood!

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Answer 2

well, if you're uncomfortable or unhappy, you should break up, or do what you feel is right.

love isnt as easy as it seems.

i feel like i got lucky, but not everyone finds it easy.

remember you'll have other times and people to date, so dont ruin friendships if its not serious, or you dont like her.

x3

ill be here if you wanna talk!