I have been spanked by my parents when I deserve it lol
The only thing that happened to me that SORT OF sounds like abuse was when I was like 7. My brother was annoying me and I was in a mood that day so I put my fist up and threatened to punch him. I wasn’t really going to though. My dad heard me from the other room, screamed that I couldn’t do that as I began sobbing, slung me on his shoulder making sure that as he walked up the stairs I was in discomfort, and slammed me on the ground yelling :) I’m pretty sure I blacked out for like 3 seconds once we were halfway up the stairs and woke up when I hit the floor
He’s in the military so yeah no wonder. Oh and I lost device privileges for a week.
Strict parents